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“Sincerity makes the very least person to be of more value than the most talented hypocrite.” – Charles Spurgeon
“Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.” – Aristotle
“Stay Positive. Keep Faith. Remain.” – Salzy Mommyhood Blog
I was composing a blogpost when my husband came and sat beside me. I stopped typing and had a chit-chat with him.
Me: You remember yesterday we went to the kindy, the teacher reminded us to teach the kids at home?
Me: You heard she said about the reward in the hereafter and all.. That they want us to also gain rewards as well..
Me: It’s soo thoughtful, right? I gotta write it on my blog!
Hubs: *nodding cynically* Your blog is like a ‘copy-&-paste’ blog, right?
Me: What? No?
Hubs: Yea… You heard something, or you read something, you like it, then you post it on your blog. It is ‘copy & paste’.
Me: *jolted* Hey. No! I don’t copy-paste things. I write with my own words, I write from the heart, okay? If I read something or I heard something and I wanna put it on my blog, I would quote it. I’d put the name of the author or whoever said it or if I don’t know I’d still acknowledge it’s not from me. I won’t pretend that the bombastic words are mine? And sometimes I don’t even take things directly; I rephrase things but would still address the original ideas. It’s not copy-&-paste, hello?
Hubs: Oh, okay. So does that mean your blog is a ‘copy-&-paste-&-paste’ blog?
Whattt, again? Is that just how you rephrased your statement earlier?? With that, I went with “NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO” to the longest vocal cord in my throat!!!!
How dare he?? This guy really had no idea about this writing career! Come, onnnnn….!!
But that short and sharp opinion left me thinking for a moment.
Maybe he’s right. Maybe what he said was true. Maybe yes. I read something, I hear something, I like it, and I park it here. Add my comment, publish. In short, it’s copy-&-paste-&-paste. In fact now now I’m copying and pasting what he said.’
Hahahhahahaha! Like seriously! Okayyy…. Now it’s digested.
So yes, really. Actually, when I was about to start blogging again, in my mind was all about the things that I read from my books that I wanna share with people. It’s a lot of new things that I get to know from reading but I didn’t have a medium to exude them. I don’t have a book club and I don’t prefer social media. So I thought blogging is the best idea for this and this has become my main purpose and I’m happy with that.
But this comment from Mr. Sarcastic makes me realize that whatever it is, it’s not original. Maybe, 50% of the content of this blog is all from others and I’m just the ‘presenter’. Out of nowhere, my ears were suddenly echoed of the advice from my English lecturer when I was in Uni. This is what she said when students loved to overuse quoting-technique in essays because obviously it’s easy. She said; “This is your essay. You sign off your name. If you’re quoting so many other sources then the essay won’t belong to you anymore. And this makes you not a “writer”, but a “quoter”.
God bless my teacher. After years of leaving school, her words are still relevant and beneficial much. Hence, a writer or a quoter? Wait, let’s now take a look from the eyes of a reader. Let me slot in a bit of a book-review, shall I?
It’s a book by Robin Sharma titled ‘Who Will Cry When You Die?’ – A collection of thoughts on life lessons in helping people to live great lives. I loveee the book so much because it’s so meaningful, it’s packed of light advices yet very significant and deep.
Buttt….there’s one thing that’s kinda disturbing throughout my reading which is – QUOTES. There were like tooooo many quotes from so many people included in it. I noticed that and wondering why is this like a quote book?? Until I reached the part that he said in all his books, he loves to use quotations from the world great thinkers because a quote contains a wealth of wisdoms in a single line. Nahhh then only I got it – he likes quotes, so he quotes quotations in his books. Okay.
Don’t get me wrong. It’s good, it’s very much inspiring but as a reader, when I pick a book especially from a particular author, I’d expect to dig as much original thoughts from the writer him/herself, not others. Hence to me albeit how good the book is, that too many quotes scratched one star from the rating I could give. My two cents!
After alllll…… my point here is not to argue about whatever writing style one would wanna apply. I don’t mean quoting is not good it’s what I liked too and I do love quote books. What I come to think is, from the honest comment made by my husband, I now fathom out that to grow as a writer, through blogging or through any medium, the best is to try to produce as much thoughts that come from our own critical thinking. Make it the first of its kind other than just evolving from world existing ideas. You got me?
Hence again, a writer or a quoter? For now, just a casual blogger who will do whatever she likes. A mixture of both I guess, haha. Thank you Hubby for the constructive feedback on my dear blog though it’s quite cynical at first I hated you for 60 seconds! Along the way, it’s something that I’m taking note of for my own good in my current and future undertakings.
Till the next post,
“The words of Allah in the Quran are not just a mere motivation. They are a promise, an assurance from The Most Trustworthy” – SalzyMommyhoodBlog
“A smile is a curve that sets everything straight.” – Phyllis Diller
“A joy-filled home is like your own personal art museum.” – Marie Kondo
“Women find solace and rejuvenation in the company of other women.” – Helene Lerner
“Men don’t remember dates because we don’t have ‘periods’.” – Eddy Erman