This is a continuation post from the previous one. Feel free to read it first – Finding the Old Me
First and foremost, let me make an important disclaimer here. In the speech Finding the Old Me, I actually added a spoon of seasonings to enhance the flavor finely. Haha! Actually, the part that I said I spoke in front of many people – no, I did not speak in front of many people back then. The part that I loved to volunteer in class – no, I never volunteered in class. Hahaha…I exaggerated! Yes I was active with clubs and societies but I was just a regular committee and I just led small teams once or twice. And yes I enjoyed class presentations and yes my work life was right as described. My point was actually to distinguish these two positions so I exaggerated the U part a bit. Just a bit, mind me! Haha okay done with my confessions. Let’s move on to a more constructive discussion.
Ice Breaker speech is very basic. It’s talking about yourself so in terms of the contents, you don’t have to climb the Google mountain. The difference is how it’s being delivered. Through my observation in the meetings :
- They talk about their lives based on chronology – from the time they’re born to the present, highlighting significant facts along the way.
- They pick only two or three things about them and they elaborate further.
- They tell a story about an incident or an experience they went through and what they learned that made them who they are today.
I was interested with the second one and I also wanted to tell a story. And so that’s how it turned out.
PREPARATION & PRACTICE
I practiced a lot! Within two weeks prior to that, I acted in front of the mirror every single day. At first, I wrote my text and memorized it line by line but I found it so hard to flow. I sought advice from my hubby and a friend who are very associated with this speaking thingy and they told me not to memorize everything but just remember the points and structure and keep on practicing. I did just that! Thank guys.
TIPS & IDEAS
Okay these are random tips and ideas I scooped out from here and there that might be useful for you :
- Volunteer to speak during Table Topic sessions prior to the day as a practice to overcome your stage fright.
- Have a mutual interaction. Throw a question and self-answer. That would spare a pause for you to hold a moment.
- You may want to use the projector. Display interesting pictures of yourself and share the story behind them (e.g : pictures of you travelling to other countries)
- Describe yourself based on astrology, chinese zodiac or favourite colors.
- Tell the meaning of your name and elaborate the elements that make you you.
- Begin or end your speech with a quote.
- Conclude yourself in 3 words.
- Don’t forget to relate your stories with the audience. Offer something for them to take home.
I was evaluated by the Mr. President himself. One good point I want to remember is that he said I began my speech with a big smile. Some people forgot to smile when in nervous state. So yes, smile! And these are some rooms of improvement for me to note :
- “Too much hand gestures.”
This is the most obvious. That’s my habit anyway but during the speech, I even overdid it. Gotta watch these hands next time. The evaluator said, every gesture should be purposeful.
- “Too static.”
I did not move. I purposely did not move. When practicing, I tried to casually move a step or two but the risk is that I would get distracted and go blank at all. No way! So I glued my feet on the ground. Will practice on this later.
- “Less pauses.”
Those who knew me in-person surely know that I naturally speak like a train. So this is what happened live. Actually I controlled this in my practice. I timed myself and every time it was all reaching 6 minutes. But on real play, my time recorded was only 5 minutes 17 seconds. I was speeding obviously. He reminded us to use the power of pauses for the audience to absorb what we say. Okay!
EXPERIENCE & FEELINGS
All in all, well done, self! I’m so glad I did it anyways. For once I broke through my fear, my self-doubt and timidity with this challenge and what I can say is, knowing my level and competency, I’m pretty satisfied with my first performance. Thank God, Allah eased my say. I’d less fumbles and most importantly I didn’t forget my script because I didn’t bring any notes with me. Because this is the first one, this is the best so far. Hahaha. Now, I’m on to the next. Bring it on!!
Till the next post,